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Wednesday, January 19, 2011

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY....and everything else!

Honestly, where on earth has the time gone! I haven't posted since the end of October; lots has happened since! I actually feel kind of bad as I had planned to update this blog on a regular basis then eventually get it printed out in a book and give it to Makayla when she is older, and now I haven't done anything in months. Well let me try to give an update. Firstly, HAPPY (belated) 1ST BIRTHDAY MAKAYLA! You have no idea how fast this past year has flown by. I can't believe my "baby" is already one. We had planned a wonderful birthday party with approximately 40 of our family and closest friends and had a great turn out. We started off with an afternoon of swimming then moved into a party room with snacks, drinks, presents, cake and even a surprise proposal!

That's right, a complete surprise. Clint had secretly designed a custom engagement ring and he had even taken Makayla with him to Independent Jewellers one day when he told me that they were going to meet some friends for breakfast. We had previously decided on the day we wanted to get married and I had no idea that we would actually become engaged because that wasn't really important to me, but Clint really wanted to do something special; so he did...in front of all of our family and friends! If you know me you know that I don't like attention or people looking at me, so it was horrible but amazing at the same time. Since Clint had told a few people his plan, it was all caught on video so we will have that moment to cherish forever.

Now, back to the birthday girl! Makayla absolutely loved her party (or so I think), this girl is a water baby so I just knew that swimming was perfect for her first party! She quite enjoyed opening her gifts, and boy was she spoiled, which we are so thankful for. I had ordered a Tinkerbell cupcake cake, and she devoured her entire cupcake and we've got pictures to prove it. All in all it was a wonderful day that I will always remember!


Since it is now a few months past Makayla's birthday, she is 14 months and quite the amazing little girl. Not only is she changing physically, longer hair, getting taller, almost a full mouth of teeth, she uses a sippy cup, she's starting to walk, but she is also learning so much too! She knows some of her body parts and it's adorable! Nose, eye, head, hairdo, tummy, belly button (ba babababa bababa) as she says! She also knows where my belly button is and she's always trying to lift up my shirt to expose it, too cute!

Lots of other things have happened; I am now back at work full time (went back November 15th), Makayla attends a dayhome and Clint is still working up north. For me work is work, I like it but I'd rather be at home with my baby, unfortunately that just doesn't work for us financially. Makayla is now onto her second dayhome, she only lasted a month at the first one. LOTS of reasons made us leave, to sum it up we pulled her out because we just didn't feel comfortable with her being there, the lady changed our contract a month in and it boiled down to "I'm going with my gut"! I feel awesome about the one she is going to now, it seems like everyday she comes home with something new. Last week she came home doing sign language for "more", which is great because now she tells me if she is still hungry! Makayla has been sick for a couple of weeks with a cold, yesterday she came home and covered her mouth when she coughed. Each day she is getting better on her feet; tonight she is going all over the place!

Christmas was excellent, we got to spend lots of time with family and had some great meals. Makayla really enjoyed her second Christmas, she was really into opening her gifts....or maybe just playing with the paper. I'm amazed at how much she plays with her toys, she is really independent, wait I take that back, she's independent when she wants to be, hehehehe..... We took Makayala to Candy Cane Lane on December 28, 2010 (a memory from when I was a child) - she slept, we enjoyed it!



As for our wedding, I'm getting excited. Our ceremony and reception are booked and I couldn't be happier with our choices. Caesars Palace Juno Gardens for the ceremony and Maggiano's Little Italy for the reception. Our Save the Date magnets, invitations and some other items arrived on January 5, 2011! I am going to Bridal Fantasy this Sunday with my Maid of Honor, one of my Bridesmaids and my Mom, so we can get some ideas for dresses, centerpieces, and whatever else we can bring to VEGAS!!

I think that is enough of an update for tonight; I'm sure more has taken place over the last few months but that's all I can think of right now! Makayla,

Mommy loves you!!! xoxoxo

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Vegas? Why Not?

Clint and I had a "plan" from the day we got together, that can be found under the tab at the top of the page "Our Life Together"; here is a portion of it:

My "hubby guy" and I met on a blind date on September 14, 2006 and basically started dating immediately and we moved in together about a month later. We both wanted children and didn't want to wait forever, having them sooner than later was our plan! A wedding will follow one day, it's not our priority in life, it's not our goal - it's the marriage that we are interested in and not the wedding itself. Don't get me wrong we still look forward to the wedding, but we feel people put to much emphasis on the party, get carried away and spend way to much money. We feel like we are married anyway, we don't necessarily need that piece of paper to make us a "proper couple".

Now that Clint has a really great job, well being away sucks but the money is nice, we can actually afford a wedding and not feel like we need to be spending that money elsewhere. We aren't really the "traditional" couple, we don't want to get married in a hall (we aren't religious so a church is out), and we don't want a hall reception...so Clint suggested Vegas! Yes, why not, that is an awesome idea...it will probably cost about half of what it would here. We aren't planning a "cheesy Vegas wedding", but it will still be fun and definitely memorable! We have been looking into a couple of different options and are hoping to book something within the next few weeks!! Exciting!!!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Online Shopping & Shopping In General!

Well, we have finally broke down and ordered some "big girl" things. This past Thursday I ordered a highchair, and yesterday I ordered a carseat. The carseat since Makayla is outgrowing her infant bucket seat, and the highchair since the bumbo and booster seat just aren't cutting it anymore! I will post some pictures when they arrive!! :)

This past weekend, Makayla, Grandma Linda and I drove to Red Deer to meet Auntie Cindy for the afternoon and to go out for supper! Makayla was very spoiled by her Auntie! Here are some pictures of what Makayla received! THANK YOU AUNTIE CINDY, WE REALLY APPRECIATE IT!


Sunday, October 24, 2010

Brooklyn's Birthday Party

Well...Brooklyn's 1st birthday party was today, you know what that means...Makayla's will be here VERY shortly! Wow, where the heck has the past year gone? I remember this time last year sitting around, very large, and waiting for my little monkey to arrive!

Here are some pictures from Brooklyn's party, Makayla was right in there "helping" Nicky unwrap all the presents. She was even more interested in it than Brooklyn was :)








Thursday, October 21, 2010

First Time To The Waterpark & The Dreaded Return To Work

I took Makayla to the waterpark today for the first time! She is such a water baby and we honestly haven't been swimming for a while, so I was unsure of how long she would want to spend in the pool...well she lasted two hours, the only reason we left is because she was actually shivering and her lips were blue. I figured it was time to go!! We are already planning to go again in a few weeks!! I only got one picture of us, but I thought it was a good one!




So...the return to work is soon approaching! November 15th is the day. I like my job and everything, but honestly I just do not want to leave my baby! We have found a wonderful dayhome, but it doesn't matter the thought of it still doesn't sit well with me! If only we could afford for me to stay home, or even if we had a big enough place I think that I would start a dayhome. Well I guess I need to look on the bright side of things...having a full paycheck will be nice; oh right...I have to pay for the dayhome...there goes my paycheck :(

Friday, October 15, 2010

Date Night!

Clint and I went to Jubilation's the other night on an actual date, without Makayla!!! Wow, when does that ever happen? It was nice! The show was Night at the Museum of Rock and Roll. Clint has now gone back to work and will be home two days before Makayla's first birthday!!! Where the heck does time go??

What a big girl!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Full of Surprises!

I have the best hubby guy - he told me tonight that he was going out for a car wash and he actually went out and bought me a new laptop because mine has been acting up!!!

Makayla decided to flip her carseat over and sit on it! What a funny little girl!